Sermon by Rev. Diane Rollert, 7 September, 2008
Re-entry into life after a vacation. You take a deep breath. You look at that cold water rushing beneath you, that river of life that keeps on flowing, and every bone in your body shouts, “don’t jump! It’s too cold!” You gather up your courage and you close your eyes. Every bone in your body is still shouting as you leap into the air. You hit the water and now every muscle and every nerve ending is screaming too. “This is cold! This is really cold!” Then your body adjusts to the temperature. Oh yeah, I can do this. You start to swim again, just as you used to swim, as if no time has passed at all and this is where you’ve always been.
Maybe like fish in a fish tank, you don’t question whether the temperature is right or not. It simply is. Then again, have you heard the one about the two fish in the fish tank? “Hey,” says fish one to the other, “Do you know how to drive this thing?”
Now, I prefer to imagine that we’re swimming in the rivers of life rather than fish tanks. But I do wonder: do we know how to drive this thing? Here we have flowed back together after the summer months. We’re like the stream in the Sufi tale that struggles to find its way back to the sea. We flow through mountains, valleys, and deserts to find our way back to this sanctuary. Maybe we have known the still waters of rest and renewal or the flowing waters of joy and happiness. Maybe we have known the stormy waters of grief and loss or the rushing waters of change and transition. We pour all that water, and all those experiences into one communal bowl, and then we wonder, how do we drive this thing?
How do we do this together? Well, maybe, instead of plunging into the icy cold water, we should take the bridge.
Ah, yes, you do remember that metaphor of the bridge that came up last spring as we were working on our mission statement. Last year, as we gathered thoughts and ideas about who we were and where we were going as a congregation, I had one of those a-ha moments. I’d always thought that this community dreamed of becoming a beacon, a lighthouse of liberal faith in Montreal. But as we began to imagine our future together, another image arose. This community dreams of becoming a bridge.
A lighthouse stands off in the distance, pristine, untouchable, even as it sends out its guiding light, I told you last spring. But a bridge is something that is always under construction. A bridge is something that has to be experienced directly. We have to walk across it. We have to hold onto its railings. We have to shore it up when it starts to sag. We have to work on it.
A bridge calls us to walk back and forth, to take both directions. We cross the bridge in one direction to find our place of truth and meaning. We cross the bridge in the opposite direction to bring that understanding out into the world.
I love the words that now grace our new order of service. “As a spiritual community, we welcome and nurture, we inspire and challenge, we take action in the world.” These words are clear and direct. Now we have to live up to them. We have to engage with our mission. We have to make it real and learn to live it together.
How do we drive this thing? I’ve been thinking about it all summer. The stakes are high here. We’re done with the talking and now we have to do the work. It’s time to build the bridge.
In two weeks, we’ll gather for an all-congregation retreat, beginning with a Friday night potluck supper on September 19, followed by an all-day programme on Saturday. That will be your opportunity to determine the concrete steps we’ll take in the next year and the years to come in order to fulfil our mission.
Whatever specific steps we do decide to take, it is clear to me that the bridge we build will have be to a lot wider and a lot stronger to support a lot more people. We have big dreams and deep longing, and without more hands to help, they won’t be realized or fulfilled. There’s illness, loneliness, loss and great need here in our own midst and in our surrounding community. I want to see us build a true Caring Connection, a real team – not just one person, not just two, but a real network that makes sure that everyone in our community is taken care of. I want to see us continue to build our social justice outreach so that we are an even greater presence in Montreal.
We’ll have to take bold steps to more deeply engage our cultural and theological diversity. We’ll have to take on all those words that make us squirm, and listen to each other with respect as we speak from our own hearts and with our own language.
And, we’ve got to make space for all the generations to come together, to support our children and youth, to encourage more young families to become actively engaged in our community. They are out there and they need us and we need them.
Our dreams and longings won’t be fulfilled unless we grow. We have to grow, because this world needs us, not because of what we are already, but because of what we can become. Our mission is what we aspire to be. We can’t pat ourselves on the back and tell ourselves our mission is already fulfilled, not yet, not ever. We’ve got to work to get there and then keep on working to stay there.
Now, I confess, as an American who is becoming a Canadian, I’m totally obsessed with what is happening south of our border right now – and here in Canada, as elections loom. We’re in a period of time when things could be shifting more and more to the right. Whatever your political affiliation may be, you can see how much the world continues to shift away from the common good in favour of the selfishness and cynicism of individuals. We have to be a counterbalance here. If there are more of us, we will have more of a voice in this community, in this city and in this world. But getting there means comforting the afflicted and afflicting the comfortable.
As we grow, things will get messy. Not everyone will know the rules. Generations and different groups may clash as they learn to understand each other. But we can’t afford to be comfortable. We can’t afford to be a clubhouse, or even a distant, pristine lighthouse. We can’t be a fortress. Bridges get used. They get walked upon. They see a lot of traffic. They need to be strong and welcoming. That means that each and every one of us has to become a fresh air ambassador. The doors are wide open now. The front walkway is free. We’ve got to be welcoming to every single person who enters here. There’s a good chance they’ve been searching a long time. But we can’t sit back and wait until they come. We’ve got to bring them in.
Who do you know whose life would be improved by coming here? Who do you know who would improve our lives by being part of our community? What if you brought them to church one Sunday? I know this sounds radical, almost evangelical by Unitarian standards. But as one newcomer said to me last year, we are the best-kept secret in Montreal. If we want to be a place that matters in this city and in the world, we need to reach out to welcome and nurture those who can then inspire and challenge us to do more in the world.
There’s a beautiful poem called The Bridge by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow, one of our Unitarian ancestors. He writes of his relationship to a bridge over the course of his life, from his days of youthful sorrow and passion to a time when he has grown to have compassion for the burdens of others.
I see the long procession
Still passing to and fro,
The young heart hot and restless,
And the old subdued and slow!
And forever and forever,
As long as the river flows,
As long as the heart has passions,
As long as life has woes;
The moon and its broken reflection
And its shadows shall appear,
As the symbol of love in heaven,
And its wavering image here.
This is what I imagine. A strong bridge that will connect us from this sanctuary to the world, where we can stop and watch the changes in our lives and catch glimpses of that wavering image of love.
The stakes are high for us here, and very worth the effort.
Rev. Diane Rollert, copyright 2008